Follow-up hardening on the request-id grant path.
approve_request took the same lockout treatment as approve_code: gated by
it, and recording a miss toward it. But the two paths defend different
things. The lockout exists to stop guessing at the 8-char code space over a
messaging channel; a request id is only ever obtained by an admin already
authenticated to the store, so a miss means the row they clicked went stale.
Counting those let a handful of clicks on a stale list lock the operator out
of `hermes pairing approve` for an hour — the GUI DoSing the CLI.
Also drops the `code`/`code_hash_prefix` compat fields from list_pending.
The hash prefix is what admin surfaces mistook for an approvable code in the
first place, and re-exporting the request id under the old `code` key just
preserves the ambiguity; both consumers in the tree read `request_id` now.
The 16-hex sniffing that had been copy-pasted into the CLI and the endpoint
(where a chained conditional consulted it against the wrong field) moves to
one owner, PairingStore.looks_like_request_id.
The endpoint no longer reports a 429 on the request-id path, where lockout
can't apply — a stale id surfaced as a bogus "locked out" while the platform
sat locked for something else entirely.