feat(gateway): skill-aware slash commands, paginated /commands, Telegram 100-cap (#3934)

* feat(gateway): skill-aware slash commands, paginated /commands, Telegram 100-cap

Map active skills to Telegram's slash command menu so users can
discover and invoke skills directly. Three changes:

1. Telegram menu now includes active skill commands alongside built-in
   commands, capped at 100 entries (Telegram Bot API limit). Overflow
   commands remain callable but hidden from the picker. Logged at
   startup when cap is hit.

2. New /commands [page] gateway command for paginated browsing of all
   commands + skills. /help now shows first 10 skill commands and
   points to /commands for the full list.

3. When a user types a slash command that matches a disabled or
   uninstalled skill, they get actionable guidance:
   - Disabled: 'Enable it with: hermes skills config'
   - Optional (not installed): 'Install with: hermes skills install official/<path>'

Built on ideas from PR #3921 by @kshitijk4poor.

* chore: move 21 niche skills to optional-skills

Move specialized/niche skills from built-in (skills/) to optional
(optional-skills/) to reduce the default skill count. Users can
install them with: hermes skills install official/<category>/<name>

Moved skills (21):
- mlops: accelerate, chroma, faiss, flash-attention,
  hermes-atropos-environments, huggingface-tokenizers, instructor,
  lambda-labs, llava, nemo-curator, pinecone, pytorch-lightning,
  qdrant, saelens, simpo, slime, tensorrt-llm, torchtitan
- research: domain-intel, duckduckgo-search
- devops: inference-sh cli

Built-in skills: 96 → 75
Optional skills: 22 → 43

* fix: only include repo built-in skills in Telegram menu, not user-installed

User-installed skills (from hub or manually added) stay accessible via
/skills and by typing the command directly, but don't get registered
in the Telegram slash command picker. Only skills whose SKILL.md is
under the repo's skills/ directory are included in the menu.

This keeps the Telegram menu focused on the curated built-in set while
user-installed skills remain discoverable through /skills and /commands.

optional-skills/mlops/nemo-curator/references/deduplication.md

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+# Deduplication Guide
+
+Complete guide to exact, fuzzy, and semantic deduplication.
+
+## Exact deduplication
+
+Remove documents with identical content.
+
+```python
+from nemo_curator.modules import ExactDuplicates
+
+# Exact deduplication
+exact_dedup = ExactDuplicates(
+    id_field="id",
+    text_field="text",
+    hash_method="md5"  # or "sha256"
+)
+
+deduped = exact_dedup(dataset)
+```
+
+**Performance**: ~16× faster on GPU vs CPU
+
+## Fuzzy deduplication
+
+Remove near-duplicate documents using MinHash + LSH.
+
+```python
+from nemo_curator.modules import FuzzyDuplicates
+
+fuzzy_dedup = FuzzyDuplicates(
+    id_field="id",
+    text_field="text",
+    num_hashes=260,        # MinHash permutations (more = accurate)
+    num_buckets=20,        # LSH buckets (more = faster, less recall)
+    hash_method="md5",
+    jaccard_threshold=0.8  # Similarity threshold
+)
+
+deduped = fuzzy_dedup(dataset)
+```
+
+**Parameters**:
+- `num_hashes`: 128-512 (default 260)
+- `num_buckets`: 10-50 (default 20)
+- `jaccard_threshold`: 0.7-0.9 (default 0.8)
+
+**Performance**: 16× faster on 8TB dataset (120h → 7.5h)
+
+## Semantic deduplication
+
+Remove semantically similar documents using embeddings.
+
+```python
+from nemo_curator.modules import SemanticDuplicates
+
+semantic_dedup = SemanticDuplicates(
+    id_field="id",
+    text_field="text",
+    embedding_model="sentence-transformers/all-MiniLM-L6-v2",
+    embedding_batch_size=256,
+    threshold=0.85,  # Cosine similarity threshold
+    device="cuda"
+)
+
+deduped = semantic_dedup(dataset)
+```
+
+**Models**:
+- `all-MiniLM-L6-v2`: Fast, 384 dims
+- `all-mpnet-base-v2`: Better quality, 768 dims
+- Custom models supported
+
+## Comparison
+
+| Method | Speed | Recall | Use Case |
+|--------|-------|--------|----------|
+| Exact | Fastest | 100% | Exact matches only |
+| Fuzzy | Fast | ~95% | Near-duplicates (recommended) |
+| Semantic | Slow | ~90% | Paraphrases, rewrites |
+
+## Best practices
+
+1. **Start with exact dedup** - Remove obvious duplicates
+2. **Use fuzzy for large datasets** - Best speed/quality trade-off
+3. **Semantic for high-value data** - Expensive but thorough
+4. **GPU acceleration required** - 10-16× speedup