feat(gateway): skill-aware slash commands, paginated /commands, Telegram 100-cap (#3934)

* feat(gateway): skill-aware slash commands, paginated /commands, Telegram 100-cap

Map active skills to Telegram's slash command menu so users can
discover and invoke skills directly. Three changes:

1. Telegram menu now includes active skill commands alongside built-in
   commands, capped at 100 entries (Telegram Bot API limit). Overflow
   commands remain callable but hidden from the picker. Logged at
   startup when cap is hit.

2. New /commands [page] gateway command for paginated browsing of all
   commands + skills. /help now shows first 10 skill commands and
   points to /commands for the full list.

3. When a user types a slash command that matches a disabled or
   uninstalled skill, they get actionable guidance:
   - Disabled: 'Enable it with: hermes skills config'
   - Optional (not installed): 'Install with: hermes skills install official/<path>'

Built on ideas from PR #3921 by @kshitijk4poor.

* chore: move 21 niche skills to optional-skills

Move specialized/niche skills from built-in (skills/) to optional
(optional-skills/) to reduce the default skill count. Users can
install them with: hermes skills install official/<category>/<name>

Moved skills (21):
- mlops: accelerate, chroma, faiss, flash-attention,
  hermes-atropos-environments, huggingface-tokenizers, instructor,
  lambda-labs, llava, nemo-curator, pinecone, pytorch-lightning,
  qdrant, saelens, simpo, slime, tensorrt-llm, torchtitan
- research: domain-intel, duckduckgo-search
- devops: inference-sh cli

Built-in skills: 96 → 75
Optional skills: 22 → 43

* fix: only include repo built-in skills in Telegram menu, not user-installed

User-installed skills (from hub or manually added) stay accessible via
/skills and by typing the command directly, but don't get registered
in the Telegram slash command picker. Only skills whose SKILL.md is
under the repo's skills/ directory are included in the menu.

This keeps the Telegram menu focused on the curated built-in set while
user-installed skills remain discoverable through /skills and /commands.

optional-skills/mlops/llava/references/training.md

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+# LLaVA Training Guide
+
+Guide to training and fine-tuning LLaVA models.
+
+## Training stages
+
+### Stage 1: Feature alignment (Pretraining)
+
+**Purpose**: Align vision encoder with language model
+
+**Data**: 558K image-caption pairs (CC3M subset)
+
+```bash
+# Download pretrained projector or train from scratch
+bash scripts/v1_5/pretrain.sh
+```
+
+**Configuration:**
+- Base model: Vicuna-7B or LLaMA-2-7B
+- Vision encoder: CLIP ViT-L/14
+- Training time: ~20 hours on 8× A100
+
+### Stage 2: Visual instruction tuning
+
+**Purpose**: Teach model to follow visual instructions
+
+**Data**: 150K GPT-generated multimodal instruction data
+
+```bash
+# Fine-tune with instruction data
+bash scripts/v1_5/finetune.sh
+```
+
+**Configuration:**
+- Epochs: 1
+- Batch size: 128 (across 8 GPUs)
+- Learning rate: 2e-5
+- Training time: ~24 hours on 8× A100
+
+## Data format
+
+### Instruction data format
+
+```json
+[
+    {
+        "id": "001",
+        "image": "path/to/image.jpg",
+        "conversations": [
+            {
+                "from": "human",
+                "value": "<image>\nWhat is in this image?"
+            },
+            {
+                "from": "gpt",
+                "value": "The image shows a dog playing in a park."
+            },
+            {
+                "from": "human",
+                "value": "What breed is the dog?"
+            },
+            {
+                "from": "gpt",
+                "value": "It appears to be a Golden Retriever."
+            }
+        ]
+    }
+]
+```
+
+## Fine-tuning on custom data
+
+### Prepare your data
+
+```python
+import json
+
+# Create instruction data
+data = []
+for image_path, qa_pairs in your_dataset:
+    conversations = []
+    for q, a in qa_pairs:
+        conversations.append({"from": "human", "value": f"<image>\n{q}"})
+        conversations.append({"from": "gpt", "value": a})
+
+    data.append({
+        "id": str(len(data)),
+        "image": image_path,
+        "conversations": conversations
+    })
+
+# Save
+with open("custom_data.json", "w") as f:
+    json.dump(data, f, indent=2)
+```
+
+### Fine-tune script
+
+```bash
+#!/bin/bash
+
+# Set paths
+DATA_PATH="custom_data.json"
+IMAGE_FOLDER="path/to/images"
+MODEL_PATH="liuhaotian/llava-v1.5-7b"
+OUTPUT_DIR="./checkpoints/llava-custom"
+
+# Fine-tune
+deepspeed llava/train/train_mem.py \
+    --deepspeed ./scripts/zero2.json \
+    --model_name_or_path $MODEL_PATH \
+    --version v1 \
+    --data_path $DATA_PATH \
+    --image_folder $IMAGE_FOLDER \
+    --vision_tower openai/clip-vit-large-patch14-336 \
+    --mm_projector_type mlp2x_gelu \
+    --mm_vision_select_layer -2 \
+    --mm_use_im_start_end False \
+    --mm_use_im_patch_token False \
+    --image_aspect_ratio pad \
+    --group_by_modality_length True \
+    --bf16 True \
+    --output_dir $OUTPUT_DIR \
+    --num_train_epochs 1 \
+    --per_device_train_batch_size 16 \
+    --per_device_eval_batch_size 4 \
+    --gradient_accumulation_steps 1 \
+    --evaluation_strategy "no" \
+    --save_strategy "steps" \
+    --save_steps 50000 \
+    --save_total_limit 1 \
+    --learning_rate 2e-5 \
+    --weight_decay 0. \
+    --warmup_ratio 0.03 \
+    --lr_scheduler_type "cosine" \
+    --logging_steps 1 \
+    --tf32 True \
+    --model_max_length 2048 \
+    --gradient_checkpointing True \
+    --dataloader_num_workers 4 \
+    --lazy_preprocess True \
+    --report_to wandb
+```
+
+## LoRA fine-tuning (memory efficient)
+
+```python
+from peft import LoraConfig, get_peft_model
+
+# LoRA config
+lora_config = LoraConfig(
+    r=8,  # LoRA rank
+    lora_alpha=16,
+    target_modules=["q_proj", "v_proj"],
+    lora_dropout=0.05,
+    bias="none",
+    task_type="CAUSAL_LM"
+)
+
+# Apply LoRA
+model = get_peft_model(base_model, lora_config)
+
+# Train with much lower memory
+```
+
+## Hardware requirements
+
+### Full fine-tuning
+
+- **7B model**: 8× A100 (40GB)
+- **13B model**: 8× A100 (80GB)
+- **Training time**: 20-48 hours
+
+### LoRA fine-tuning
+
+- **7B model**: 1× A100 (40GB)
+- **13B model**: 2× A100 (40GB)
+- **Training time**: 10-24 hours
+
+## Best practices
+
+1. **Start with pretrained** - Don't train from scratch
+2. **Use LoRA for efficiency** - 10× less memory
+3. **Quality over quantity** - 1K high-quality > 10K low-quality
+4. **Multi-turn conversations** - More engaging than single Q&A
+5. **Diverse images** - Cover different scenarios
+6. **Clear instructions** - Specific questions get better answers
+7. **Monitor loss** - Should decrease smoothly
+8. **Save checkpoints** - Training can fail
+9. **Test regularly** - Validate on held-out set
+10. **Use DeepSpeed** - For multi-GPU training
+
+## Resources
+
+- **Training script**: https://github.com/haotian-liu/LLaVA/tree/main/scripts
+- **Data format**: https://github.com/haotian-liu/LLaVA/blob/main/docs/Data.md
+- **Paper**: https://arxiv.org/abs/2304.08485