feat: shell hooks — wire shell scripts as Hermes hook callbacks

Users can declare shell scripts in config.yaml under a hooks: block that
fire on plugin-hook events (pre_tool_call, post_tool_call, pre_llm_call,
subagent_stop, etc). Scripts receive JSON on stdin, can return JSON on
stdout to block tool calls or inject context pre-LLM.

Key design:
- Registers closures on existing PluginManager._hooks dict — zero changes
  to invoke_hook() call sites
- subprocess.run(shell=False) via shlex.split — no shell injection
- First-use consent per (event, command) pair, persisted to allowlist JSON
- Bypass via --accept-hooks, HERMES_ACCEPT_HOOKS=1, or hooks_auto_accept
- hermes hooks list/test/revoke/doctor CLI subcommands
- Adds subagent_stop hook event fired after delegate_task children exit
- Claude Code compatible response shapes accepted

Cherry-picked from PR #13143 by @pefontana.

hermes_cli/plugins.py

@@ -70,6 +70,7 @@ VALID_HOOKS: Set[str] = {
     "on_session_end",
     "on_session_finalize",
     "on_session_reset",
+    "subagent_stop",
 }
 
 ENTRY_POINTS_GROUP = "hermes_agent.plugins"