feat: complete plugin platform parity — all 12 integration points

Extends the platform plugin interface from Phase 1 to cover every
touchpoint where built-in platforms have hardcoded behavior.

- allowed_users_env / allow_all_env: per-platform auth env vars
- max_message_length: smart-chunking for send_message tool
- pii_safe: session PII redaction flag
- emoji: CLI/gateway display
- allow_update_command: /update access control

send_message tool (tools/send_message_tool.py):
- Replaced hardcoded platform_map dict with Platform() call
- Added _send_via_adapter() for plugin platforms — routes through
  live gateway adapter when available
- Registry-aware max message length for smart chunking

Cron delivery (cron/scheduler.py):
- Replaced hardcoded 15-entry platform_map with Platform() call
- Plugin platforms now work as cron delivery targets

User authorization (gateway/run.py _is_user_authorized):
- Registry fallback: checks PlatformEntry.allowed_users_env and
  allow_all_env when platform not in hardcoded maps
- Plugin platforms get per-platform auth support

_UPDATE_ALLOWED_PLATFORMS: checks registry allow_update_command flag
Channel directory: includes plugin platforms in session enumeration
Orphaned config warning: descriptive message when plugin platform is
  in config but no plugin registered it
Gateway weakref: _gateway_runner_ref for cross-module adapter access

hermes status: shows plugin platforms with (plugin) tag
hermes gateway setup: plugin platforms appear in menu with setup hints
hermes_cli/platforms.py: get_all_platforms() merges with registry,
  platform_label() falls back to registry for plugin names

- 8 new tests (extended fields, cron resolution, platforms merge)
- Updated 3 tests for new Platform() based resolution
- 2829 passed, 24 pre-existing failures, zero new failures

tests/gateway/test_email.py

@@ -235,6 +235,17 @@ class TestExtractAttachments(unittest.TestCase):
         mock_cache.assert_called_once()
 
 
+class TestCronDelivery(unittest.TestCase):
+    """Verify email in cron scheduler platform_map."""
+
+    def test_email_resolves_for_cron(self):
+        """Email platform resolves via Platform() for cron delivery."""
+        from gateway.config import Platform
+        p = Platform("email")
+        self.assertEqual(p, Platform.EMAIL)
+        self.assertEqual(p.value, "email")
+
+
 class TestDispatchMessage(unittest.TestCase):
     """Test email message dispatch logic."""