perf(ssh,modal): bulk file sync via tar pipe and tar/base64 archive (#8014)

* perf(ssh,modal): bulk file sync via tar pipe and tar/base64 archive

SSH: symlink-staging + tar -ch piped over SSH in a single TCP stream.
Eliminates per-file scp round-trips. Handles timeout (kills both
processes), SSH Popen failure (kills tar), and tar create failure.

Modal: in-memory gzipped tar archive, base64-encoded, decoded+extracted
in one exec call. Checks exit code and raises on failure.

Both backends use shared helpers extracted into file_sync.py:
- quoted_mkdir_command() — mirrors existing quoted_rm_command()
- unique_parent_dirs() — deduplicates parent dirs from file pairs

Migrates _ensure_remote_dirs to use the new helpers.

28 new tests (21 SSH + 7 Modal), all passing.

Closes #7465
Closes #7467

* fix(modal): pipe stdin to avoid ARG_MAX, clean up review findings

- Modal bulk upload: stream base64 payload through proc.stdin in 1MB
  chunks instead of embedding in command string (Modal SDK enforces
  64KB ARG_MAX_BYTES — typical payloads are ~4.3MB)
- Modal single-file upload: same stdin fix, add exit code checking
- Remove what-narrating comments in ssh.py and modal.py (keep WHY
  comments: symlink staging rationale, SIGPIPE, deadlock avoidance)
- Remove unnecessary `sandbox = self._sandbox` alias in modal bulk
- Daytona: use shared helpers (unique_parent_dirs, quoted_mkdir_command)
  instead of inlined duplicates

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Co-authored-by: kshitijk4poor <82637225+kshitijk4poor@users.noreply.github.com>

tools/environments/file_sync.py

@@ -10,6 +10,7 @@ import logging
 import os
 import shlex
 import time
+from pathlib import Path
 from typing import Callable
 
 from tools.environments.base import _file_mtime_key
@@ -60,6 +61,16 @@ def quoted_rm_command(remote_paths: list[str]) -> str:
     return "rm -f " + " ".join(shlex.quote(p) for p in remote_paths)
 
 
+def quoted_mkdir_command(dirs: list[str]) -> str:
+    """Build a shell ``mkdir -p`` command for a batch of directories."""
+    return "mkdir -p " + " ".join(shlex.quote(d) for d in dirs)
+
+
+def unique_parent_dirs(files: list[tuple[str, str]]) -> list[str]:
+    """Extract sorted unique parent directories from (host, remote) pairs."""
+    return sorted({str(Path(remote).parent) for _, remote in files})
+
+
 class FileSyncManager:
     """Tracks local file changes and syncs to a remote environment.