fix(tui): harden against Node V8 OOM + GatewayClient memory leaks

Long TUI sessions were crashing Node via V8 fatal-OOM once transcripts +
reasoning blobs crossed the default 1.5–4GB heap cap. This adds defense
in depth: a bigger heap, leak-proofing the RPC hot path, bounded
diagnostic buffers, automatic heap dumps at high-water marks, and
graceful signal / uncaught handlers.

## Changes

### Heap budget
- hermes_cli/main.py: `_launch_tui` now injects `NODE_OPTIONS=
  --max-old-space-size=8192 --expose-gc` (appended — does not clobber
  user-supplied NODE_OPTIONS). Covers both `node dist/entry.js` and
  `tsx src/entry.tsx` launch paths.
- ui-tui/src/entry.tsx: shebang rewritten to
  `#!/usr/bin/env -S node --max-old-space-size=8192 --expose-gc` as a
  fallback when the binary is invoked directly.

### GatewayClient (ui-tui/src/gatewayClient.ts)
- `setMaxListeners(0)` — silences spurious warnings from React hook
  subscribers.
- `logs` and `bufferedEvents` replaced with fixed-capacity
  CircularBuffer — O(1) push, no splice(0, …) copies under load.
- RPC timeout refactor: `setTimeout(this.onTimeout.bind(this), …, id)`
  replaces the inline arrow closure that captured `method`/`params`/
  `resolve`/`reject` for the full 120 s request timeout. Each Pending
  record now stores its own timeout handle, `.unref()`'d so stuck
  timers never keep the event loop alive, and `rejectPending()` clears
  them (previously leaked the timer itself).

### Memory diagnostics (new)
- ui-tui/src/lib/memory.ts: `performHeapDump()` +
  `captureMemoryDiagnostics()`. Writes heap snapshot + JSON diag
  sidecar to `~/.hermes/heapdumps/` (override via
  `HERMES_HEAPDUMP_DIR`). Diagnostics are written first so we still get
  useful data if the snapshot crashes on very large heaps.
  Captures: detached V8 contexts (closure-leak signal), active
  handles/requests (`process._getActiveHandles/_getActiveRequests`),
  Linux `/proc/self/fd` count + `/proc/self/smaps_rollup`, heap growth
  rate (MB/hr), and auto-classifies likely leak sources.
- ui-tui/src/lib/memoryMonitor.ts: 10 s interval polling heapUsed. At
  1.5 GB writes an auto heap dump (trigger=`auto-high`); at 2.5 GB
  writes a final dump and exits 137 before V8 fatal-OOMs so the user
  can restart cleanly. Handle is `.unref()`'d so it never holds the
  process open.

### Graceful exit (new)
- ui-tui/src/lib/gracefulExit.ts: SIGINT/SIGTERM/SIGHUP run registered
  cleanups through a 4 s failsafe `setTimeout` that hard-exits if
  cleanup hangs.
  `uncaughtException` / `unhandledRejection` are logged to stderr
  instead of crashing — a transient TUI render error should not kill
  an in-flight agent turn.

### Slash commands (new)
- ui-tui/src/app/slash/commands/debug.ts:
  - `/heapdump` — manual snapshot + diagnostics.
  - `/mem` — live heap / rss / external / array-buffer / uptime panel.
- Registered in `ui-tui/src/app/slash/registry.ts`.

### Utility (new)
- ui-tui/src/lib/circularBuffer.ts: small fixed-capacity ring buffer
  with `push` / `tail(n)` / `drain()` / `clear()`. Replaces the ad-hoc
  `array.splice(0, len - MAX)` pattern.

## Validation

- tsc `--noEmit` clean
- `vitest run`: 15 files, 102 tests passing
- eslint clean on all touched/new files
- build produces executable `dist/entry.js` with preserved shebang
- smoke-tested: `HERMES_HEAPDUMP_DIR=… performHeapDump('manual')`
  writes both a valid `.heapsnapshot` and a `.diagnostics.json`
  containing detached-contexts, active-handles, smaps_rollup.

## Env knobs
- `HERMES_HEAPDUMP_DIR` — override snapshot output dir
- `HERMES_HEAPDUMP_ON_START=1` — dump once at boot
- existing `NODE_OPTIONS` is respected and appended, not replaced

ui-tui/src/lib/circularBuffer.ts

@@ -0,0 +1,58 @@
+export class CircularBuffer<T> {
+  private buf: T[]
+  private head = 0
+  private len = 0
+
+  constructor(private capacity: number) {
+    this.buf = new Array<T>(capacity)
+  }
+
+  push(item: T) {
+    this.buf[this.head] = item
+    this.head = (this.head + 1) % this.capacity
+
+    if (this.len < this.capacity) {
+      this.len++
+    }
+  }
+
+  pushAll(items: readonly T[]) {
+    for (const item of items) {
+      this.push(item)
+    }
+  }
+
+  tail(n = this.len): T[] {
+    const take = Math.min(Math.max(0, n), this.len)
+    const start = this.len < this.capacity ? 0 : this.head
+    const out: T[] = new Array<T>(take)
+
+    for (let i = 0; i < take; i++) {
+      out[i] = this.buf[(start + this.len - take + i) % this.capacity]!
+    }
+
+    return out
+  }
+
+  toArray(): T[] {
+    return this.tail(this.len)
+  }
+
+  drain(): T[] {
+    const out = this.toArray()
+
+    this.clear()
+
+    return out
+  }
+
+  clear() {
+    this.buf = new Array<T>(this.capacity)
+    this.head = 0
+    this.len = 0
+  }
+
+  get size() {
+    return this.len
+  }
+}